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Anniversary Gifts for a Libra

Aliza Faragher

Let’s say you’re in a relationship and it’s that time of the year again: anniversary season. Let’s also say you’re dating a Libra and when you ask them what they want, they’ll probably just respond, “I don’t know”...#typical.

Ruled by Venus, the planet of love, beauty, and luxury, Libra has good taste and high expectations, so here's what we suggest you do on your Libraversary.

1. TICKETS TO SEE HE NAMED ME MALALA.

Intellectual and justice-minded Libra will love Malala's inspirational story.

2. FOR YOUR FEMALE LIBRA, A GIFT FROM REFORMATION.

Luxurious, fashionable, and eco-conscious, Reformation makes the clothes that every girl wants to wear. Libra will love the mission and the fashion behind these amazing garments.

3. FOR YOUR MALE LIBRA, A GIFT FROM JACK THREADS

4. PEDAL BOAT RENTAL

A little anniversary 'nature' getaway for the less nature minded among us.

5. THEIR FAVORITE PERFUME OR COLOGNE

Libra loves to look good, and they know that personal style extends to scents too.

6. SUBSCRIPTION TO GQ

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With some of the best magazine writing out there right now, and a focus on men who other men want to be and who women want to be with, a GQ subscription will keep your Libra happy all year round.

Each Sign's Guide to Long Term Success with Libra

Aliza Faragher

At Align, we believe that any two signs can make it work so long as they understand each other's personalities. Libra is the sign of partnership, so it's worth investing in some of these compromises for a long term Libra lovefest.

ARIES: HAVE A "WIN IT" MENTALITY

When Aries and Libra set their minds to something, they commit hard. But then... they kind of lose interest. Both signs must have the same outcome here: we're not quitters. With that intention set, you'll be good to go.

TAURUS: FOCUS ON THE FINER THINGS IN LIFE

Taurus and Libra are ruled by Venus, the planet that rules love, beauty, and luxury. These two will appreciate each other's great taste, and should revel in it as much as possible.

GEMINI: GENTLY REMIND LIBRA YOU'RE HERE TO STAY

Libra has a reputation for being indecisive (fair, tbh), and Gemini is not known to be one of astrology's most committal signs. Like not at all. When Libra decides to partner up, they commit hard - it is the sign of partnership, after all - and they'll need to know Gemini is on the same page.

CANCER: CHECK YOUR JEALOUSY AT THE DOOR

Oh, sweet Cancer. Your heart is really in the right place. But social Libra wants to hang out, get out of the house, meet some new people, and you want to snuggle up and #NetflixAndChill. You'd never tell Libra you're mad, you just assume they can tell you want him or her all to yourself. Libra isn't confrontational either, so addressing this jealousy will get messy and emotional and overwhelming for both of you.

LEO: RETURN THE COMPLIMENTS ONCE IN A WHILE

Libra and Leo are natural pairs because Libra is all about "you" and Leo is all about "me." But sweet Libra needs the love to be returned every once in a while, and everyone knows that generous, loving Leo is more than equipped to throw some sweet nothings Libra's way.

VIRGO: GIVE LIBRA SPACE TO SOCIALIZE

Social Libra and introverted Virgo may have a hard time figuring out what makes for the best Friday night plan. Libra can go pretty much anywhere and talk to pretty much anyone, coming away with 10,000 new friends and three job offers, while Virgo is comfortable with their routine. For Virgo and Libra to work, Virgo has to make sure that Libra has their social outlet. Let them Libra out with their besties while Virgo savors their much cherished alone time. You'll both be happier because of it.

LIBRA: COME UP WITH A DECISION-MAKING PRACTICE

Libra 1: What do YOU want to do?

Libra 2: I don't care. I'll do whatever YOU want to do!

Libra 1: No, but I don't care either. What do YOU want to do?

Libra 2: Seriously. I'll do whatever. What do you think?

Continues on a loop for hours and hours and hours....

Ok team, make up your mind. Figure out a way to say "this time I'll decide, next time you decide," and just know that you'll both be happy doing what you think will make the other happy.

SCORPIO: NIP CONFLICT IN THE BUD

Libra avoids conflict at all cost. Scorpio avoids conflict too ... or so we think. They're actually plotting serious revenge in a way that will cut you straight to your core. Libra and Scorpio can be a beautiful partnership, just make sure that before Scorpio heads down Revenge Road, you're addressing issues early on. Before they bubble up and the body count goes up. 

SAGITTARIUS: TRAVEL AND GET LOST TOGETHER

Libra and Sag are two of the most curious, intellectual signs there are. As romantic partners, these two often begin as best buds. Take adventures together, explore, make sure your brains and body both stay stimulated.

CAPRICORN: DEFINE ROLES

Libra is a thinker, and Capricorn is a doer. You both lead in your own way, but you have to set the roles to make this work. Capricorn will need structure and Libra needs balance, but when you figure out the right matrix, you'll be able to make it work.

AQUARIUS: PICK YOUR BATTLES

Aquarius is the zodiac's rebel. You have your beliefs and you stand up for what you believe is truly right. Libra has a similar motivator in life, but reallllly doesn't want to fight about it. You both care a lot about what you think is fair and right in situations, and when it comes to your relationship, remember that you both are doing what you're doing because you truly believe it to be the fair thing to do. Start conversations from there.

PISCES: AVOID THE SILENT TREATMENT

Libra and Pisces are both generous, loving partners who will do anything for each other. You deal with conflict differently. Libra avoids by not talking and internalizing, causing Pisces to feel super hurt and emotional about Libra's non-communication. Pisces, frustrated and hurt but not wanting to hurt Libra's feelings by bringing anything up, will swim away. Silence is your worst enemy! Talking is hard, but not talking is even harder.

7 Things to Expect on Your First Date with a Libra

Aliza Faragher

1. They're all about fairness.

We can't ignore the obvious— Libra is symbolized by the scales of justice. Libras prefer to take the middle ground and see things in a big picture way. Get involved in a heated discussion, but don’t be surprised if Libra mutters the words, “I see both sides of the story.”

2. Libras aren't afraid of commitment.

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Ignore their false reputation for being afraid to commit. Any and every type of relationship means a lot to Libra, so don’t walk in with the attitude of “let’s not and say we did” if a potential relationship is involved. Libras find strength in relationships, so this is a no-BS category for them.

3. They're natural people pleasers.

Libras are great companions to begin with, but they always want to make sure you are having the best time possible. When it comes to spending time with you, Libra makes sure everything is in sync and harmonized. If it isn’t, you can bet Libra will get right to work in making you feel as satisfied as possible.

4. Art and aesthetics are a BD

Many Libras are artists and enjoy playing with color (even black). Their homes, outfits, and life in general are always on point because they have a knack for creating aesthetically pleasing environments. Pay attention to the extra details they’ve put into their outfit, and shower them with compliments.

5. You better have a sense of humor. If not, make up for it by dressing well.

As we said about 2 sentences ago, Libras are very visual and love style. Show off your own personal trends to your Libra date, but also make sure to keep them laughing and engaged. For Libra, the classier the jokes, the better.

6. Libras are smart AF

If your sense of humor isn’t winning over dear Libra, get them talking about their opinion on the newest documentary or movie they saw. Mention thought-provoking happenings in the world, and be prepared to discuss because Libras love to talk about subjects they know you’ll be interested in too.

7. Emotional instability is not cute.

Instability throws off any balance, but it feels worse for Libra. If you want your date to go well with your Libra, you probably don’t want to talk about the time your cat ate your pet goldfish and how you cried for a week. That’s sad, but too much emotion or abrasiveness can freak out a Libra.

 

Enjoy your date! We're rooting for you to get to date numero dos with your lovely Libra... the more you get to know them, the more their sassy side comes through. It's beautiful.