Sex with a Libra

Everyone loves Libras.  It's hard not to! They're aesthetic, fair-minded, and flirtatious af.  So when it comes to matters between the sheets (i.e. s-e-x), Libras stay true to their scales: they're all about equilibrium.

So how do you achieve sexual balance with a Libra? It's more than just 69-ing (though we're not mad at that either). Here are some tried-and-true tips on how to how to get sexy with your air sign lover.

1. SENSUAL SEDUCTION.

Libras are ruled by Venus, so they're sensual beings. Libras don't go straight for intercourse (we see you, Aries). They prefer to start off with a sexy battle of the wits, or perhaps some scandalous heavy petting. 

2. LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION.

Civilized Libras are not going to do it just anywhere. Time, place, and etiquette are essential factors for these air signs. Needless to say, Libras are definitely not prudish, so as long a sense of decorum is maintained, these air signs may get off getting down in unconventional places. May we recommend a little backseat action?

3. TALK DIRTY 2 ME.

We cannot reiterate enough: Libras are THE MOST FLIRTATIOUS SIGN OF THE ZODIAC. Write it down and say it five times right now so you never forget. There is very little you can do to match Libras' level of charm and finesse, but a little sexy talk with these air signs will be sure to get them riled up and realize they're not the only ones who know how to seduce.

4. KEEP IT CLEAN.

Cleanliness is next to godliness for our Libra loves. Indulge their aesthetic impulses and take a steamy shower together. Cleaning each other head to toe is a huge turn on for this sultry, hygienic sign.

5. RETURNING FAVORS.

Libras are people pleasers. While this may frustrate Libra's partner at times, it definitely comes in handy in the bedroom (or shower, or backseat...). Libras will stop at nothing to play fair, so enjoy your Libra lovers innate desire to please. Do something nice for Libra, and they'll be sure to return the favor. 

Things that Make Libra Feel Sexy

Let's tip those scales.

Getting their Paycheck

Libra lives for balance and harmony, so that couple of days when they deposit a check and the account balances are #Winning, a Libra feels independent, rich and generous, thereby sexy. (Until they blow it all on #Fashion)

Getting New Clothes

Speaking of #Fashion, clothes and style are particularly important for Libra, so even if their little hearts shudder when they drop that 90 bucks on a new pair of shoes or a leather vintage member's only jacket, they'll have a fashion boner for a good long while every time they slip into the new digs. (Until next season, of course.)

Being in a Stunning Environment

If you really want a Libra to feel sexy, bring them somewhere where aesthetic is obviously the priority. Even being in a fancy hotel lobby (as long as they're dressed right, which obvi they will be) makes Libra feel they belong, and they have some control over the world. And then they will make out with you. 

Figuring Something Out

Libras love contemplation and long, winding dialogues, so when they land on an excellent way to articulate a point without getting tired, or finally put together the reasoning for something, they have an intellectual orgasm (followed very possibly by real orgasms)

Satisfying you

If your Libra can get you off, they'll get off. Libra is all about reciprocation, so when they see you enjoying their moves and sexual incantations, you can be they're loving it as much (if not more) than you. This is why being vocal is important, and making sure they see that you're having fun. 

ROLE PLAY IDEAS WITH LIBRA

Libra likes to keep it fair and balanced, but that doesn't mean they aren't down to spice it up every once in a while. One of the most social signs of the zodiac, Libra is equipped to handle new situations, even if it's just some healthy role playing with bae.

PROFESSOR & STUDENT

Are your lesson plans prepared? Intellectual Libra will lose their mind if you can stimulate their mind as a sexy professor.

SUPREME COURT JUSTICE & SOLICITOR GENERAL

May we approach the bench? Libra's symbol is the scales, and it is the sign of justice, law, and fairness. Present your oral arguments to the court and find out Libra's verdict...

DOMINANT & SUBMISSIVE

We can get all 50 Shades right now, but that'll come soon (we see you, Scorpio season). Fair and balanced Libra will need two rounds of Sub & Dom, experiencing it from both angles.

STRANGERS

Libra is one of the most observant signs in the zodiac, always paying attention to the relationships of other people around them. Arrange to meet at a bar and play out the night as though you've never met before. You'll see a side of Libra you've never seen before.

SEXY MASSEUSE

Even though it's usually happy endings with your Libra, take their need to please to the next level with a sensual masseuse-client exercise.

HALLIE AND ANNIE FROM THE PARENT TRAP ARE LIBRAS.

It doesn’t make a lot of sense that we celebrate Christopher Columbus and not Hallie Parker and Annie James from the iconic and generation-defining movie The Parent Trap. Even though both were played by Cancer Lindsay Lohan in some pretty cutting edge green screen technology at the time, the realization that they had the same Libra birthday is what set the entire plot in motion. 

We owe so much to The Parent Trap, but we mostly need to celebrate Hallie and Annie’s birthday, October 11. Happy 28th birthday to two of the brightest minds of our generation.

They really balanced their twin looks.

They’re obsessed with pop culture.

They’re great teammates.

They are ideas people.

They're both classy. Especially when being British.

And so well dressed.

They’re obsessed with forming new relationships.

Aphrodisiacs for Each Sign

Before we can talk about sex, baby let’s talk about each sign’s turn-on. 

ARIES: ROOTING FOR THE SAME SPORTS TEAM

TAURUS: OYSTER HAPPY HOUR

GEMINI: A SURPRISE ROAD TRIP

CANCER: ROMANTIC CANDLELIT DINNER

LEO: COMPLIMENTS, COMPLIMENTS, COMPLIMENTS

VIRGO: CARTE BLANCHE AT THE CONTAINER STORE

LIBRA: YOUR NEWEST PERFUME OR COLOGNE

SCORPIO: SEXY SCAVENGER HUNT

SAGITTARIUS: CAMPING TRIP IN YOUR BACKYARD

CAPRICORN: BACK MASSAGE

AQUARIUS: UNDERGROUND MUSIC SHOW

PISCES: TRIP TO DISNEYLAND

Libra & Choices: The Struggle Is Real

We've been singing Libra's praises this whole season, and with good reason. Libras are fair-minded, balanced, and look good af. But behind all that classiness and rational thought, Libras are also burden by indecision.

Libra fans everywhere: be warned, this is no joke. As pride and stubbornness are the tragic flaws of Leo and Taurus (respectively), uncertainty is truly the achilles heel of our Libra loves. When it comes to Libra and choices, the struggle is very real.

So what are the causes of this paralyzing infliction? Here are a few symptoms to watch out for.

CONSTANT URGE TO MAINTAIN BALANCE

Libras (The Scales) are obsessed with balance. This is not always a bad thing - we look to our air sign friends to help restore equilibrium. But when it comes to making decisions, Libras burning desire to balance is a major factor of their uncertainty. 

OVER-ANALYZING SEVERAL GOOD OPTIONS

The justices of the zodiac, Libras have an innate ability to fairly consider all perspectives. But these air signs fall short when its time to use the gavel. Libras can be so transfixed by the array of options and outcomes, that they become totally incapable of making decisions.

SEVERE PEOPLE PLEASING

Lovely Libras are charming, friendly, and can adapt to many types of social situations. At the core of this air sign though, is a tiny scale afraid of being disliked. Libras seek approval from others, so these air signs would rather not compromise their reputation by making - what could potentially be - an unfavorable decision. 

AVOIDING CONFRONTATION LIKE THE PLAGUE

Even with their closest friends, family, and lovers, Libras are not well equipped for confrontation. In the rare instance that Libra has actually made a decision, their fear of conflict will prevent them from speaking up, and they would ultimately rather go with the flow than ruffle any feathers.

"I DON'T KNOW, YOU DECIDE"

If you've watched our video that accurately showcases the experience of dating each sign, you know Libra's catch phrase: "I don't know... yes, no? You decide." At the core of every Libra is the insatiable urge to pass off the decision making responsibility. Libras look to others to make the hard choices, while these justice-minded air signs happily plead the fifth.